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Unfiltered Notes: Pessimism Is Not an Option

Unfiltered Notes: Pessimism Is Not an Option Date: August 24, 2013          by Tewelde Stephanos          Email: testifanos@gmail.com Pessimism has been the prevailing state of mind in Eritrea for some time. And why not? There sure is plenty to

Unfiltered Notes: Pessimism Is Not an Option

Date: August 24, 2013          by Tewelde Stephanos          Email: testifanos@gmail.com

Pessimism has been the prevailing state of mind in Eritrea for some time. And why not? There sure is plenty to be pessimistic about. Ruled by unenlightened group that has consistently adhered to a medieval code of conduct that exerts maximum pain on its subjects, Eritrea has been inhospitable to its own citizens.

Not surprisingly, some asmarino.com writers have even gone to the extent of declaring Eritrea’s independence a mistake and something that should be reversed. Although their frustration is understandable, I don’t believe anything good can come out of such desperation. It is better to salvage what we have (not an easy task) to recoup some of the dignity we have squandered so willfully before contemplating alternatives from a position of extreme weakness.

As bad as we have let things get, however, it is not hard to see Eritrea’s malaise is reversible. Even taking recent African examples, Rwanda is doing much better compared to its bloody past. Admittedly, given the history of one-man shows that stay too long leaving messy exits behind, it may not be out of the woods just yet but it sure is on a hopeful trend. Ethiopia is another good example. In spite of its complex problems, it is truly moving on making more good decisions than bad ones. It even went through its first institutional peaceful transfer of power in history. So, the current dark clouds over Eritrea’s skies can be cleared if (and this is a BIG if) we start behaving differently.

But first let me pile on the bad news to acknowledge how seriously broken things are.

From all indications, Eritrea appears to be a country without people. Sure, it has about 5 million inhabitants. But disempowered and dispirited, the inhabitants have so far refused to behave as people. We have resorted to small but ineffective regional or religious factions allowing ourselves to become easy prey for all sorts of vultures. Save very few brave souls, we have the tendency to obey any orders from the tyrant of the day, no matter how ridiculous (‘give me 50,000 nakfa or I will jail your elderly father’). In addition to modern-day slavery at home, this culture of extreme obedience and self cacooning has manifested itself in other undesirable ways too – one of which is the astronomical prices human traffickers demand from Eritreans only.

Normally, the sort of indiscriminate oppression the regime levels against its own people should have resulted in a united opposition to uproot it. But we are more divided than ever. Even the “youth” movements are infected with the divisive virus of the older generation dimming the light at the end of tunnel a bit more. The hope was that as the old folks die off, their divisive legacy would die with them. As it seems, the regime is more likely to fall under its own dead weight than through active demand for freedom. One seriously hopes not, but with severely weakened sense of a unifying national umbrella, Somalia’s recent history is not a far-fetched scenario for Eritrea’s near future.

Our dialog, if it can even be called that, lacks civil discourse mimicking the regime’s arrogant culture. Anytime someone or some group starts to make sense, the regime launches vicious attacks to discredit them using well-crafted misinformation it has perfected for over 40 years. To make matters worse, people either keep silent or repeat the regime’s falsehoods without a second thought. Having trashed the character of fellow citizens, Eritrea now appears to be devoid of decent folks to look up to as examples of good citizenship – where the tyrant is referred to as “the man”. Even our language has deteriorated to glorifying the despicable as manhood has nothing to do with killings, deceit and thievery.

And then we wonder “who” can replace the despot. But “who” is not even the right question. A more appropriate question to ask is “what” because what we have is a systemic failure. The focus ought to be on how to build self-correcting institutions that can cleanse themselves of tyrants through legal means.

The regime’s repeated servile visits to Egypt to sabotage efforts of multiple African countries to renegotiate outdated Nile water rights continues to isolate us from our neighbors. This ought to be a source of shame for all Eritreans because, at the end of the day, it is being done in our name.

But the regime’s obsession to sabotage Ethiopia at all costs has only managed to impoverish Eritrea. Either way – be it from the regime’s shameful submissiveness to Egypt or our silence – Eritrea is the loser. Although not expressed publicly, such creepy (loQmaS) behavior can only generate mocking laughter from Egypt — proof of which is Egypt doing absolutely nothing to end the horrific crimes Eritreans are subjected to in Sinai.

Similarly, the regime financing regional armed groups who don’t even believe in Eritrea’s sovereignty can only be detrimental to Eritrea’s long term health. Taking Tigray’s “opposition” as an example, there is sufficient platform for them to resolve their issues within Ethiopia’s political space. As the regime continues to eliminate and disempower Eritreans, it is possible this Tigray group could end up being the primary security force to guard the rotting regime – creating complexities that will be difficult to untangle for future generations on both sides of the border.

But enough about the bad news. What now?

Building Trust

One core value that is missing from our interactions is trust. It is ironic that blind trust on the regime’s current actors is what got us where we are today. Instead of leveraging that trust to build a better future, however, the regime chose to install multi-layered spy networks to destroy trust itself. As a result, lifelong friends, neighbors and even family members don’t trust each other anymore.

Could those in the opposition and civic groups, especially the “youth” groups, gather the courage to reach out to their peers to reconcile differences and re-direct the fight against the regime instead of against each other? Could each of us make our own individual pledges to withdraw our membership from the club of ‘silent majority’ and support those we believe are making a positive difference? Mine goes to Arbi Harnet for their innovative approach to reach their peers in Eritrea because sustainable change can only come from inside Eritrea – with support from outside accelerating that change.

Communication with the right tone

There are well-intentioned individuals or groups (the G13, G15, civic groups, Internet groups etc) with strong desire to do something transformative. Unfortunately, they either exit the scene too soon or squabble among each other posing no threat to the regime. For a tiny country of 5 million (if that), we have too many splinter groups with no discernible collaborative spirit or, worse, with deep but unfounded antagonism towards each other. In a way, we have become the best allies the corrupt regime could hope for – perpetuating the agony in the process.

Those leading the way need to start communicating with a respectful tone to gain followers. Often, the message that comes across loud and clear has a tone of dictators in waiting who want to rule rather than leaders who are ready to serve.

Our dialog needs to be elevated to more dignified levels – respectful, coherent and persistent than what we have had so far. We need to have the right tone in our conversations everywhere (in formal meetings, in forums, in places of worship, in coffee shops etc) to replace the regime’s dismissive tone and feudal culture. The Orthodox church’s split into pro and anti-regime cliques is sad to say the least.

Culture of inter-dependence

Our recent history, architected by few insiders of the regime, has been one of extreme arrogance. This has alienated us from each other and from the rest of the world. The arrogance of yesteryears where we derisively saw Ethiopia as nothing more than a market for Eritrea’s finished goods is a fading memory now. We have made a total mess of things and destroyed whatever potential there was to produce goods for export. Ethiopia is advancing ahead of Eritrea now and we are more likely to become consumers of Ethiopia’s goods. Eritrea doesn’t produce much that improves the lives of its people or that is of interest to others. If there is (gold you might say?), the feudal lord and his minions have made sure nothing trickles down to improve the economy. Forget meeting energy needs for industrialization purposes. Eritrea can’t even handle demand for basic household lighting.

Unless cheaper sources of energy are miraculously discovered, for example, energy self-sufficiency will remain an elusive goal and with it Eritrea’s elevation to the civilized world. A better formula could be mixing Ethiopia’s much cheaper hydro power and Eritrea’s port services as good counter weights in building an inter-dependent future with desirable side-benefits of reduced chances of conflicts. But the poisoned atmosphere needs to be detoxified for that and other formulas to be contemplated.

Although Assab and Massawa could still be viable for the long term, they are less competitive to Djibouti’s improving port services and other options Ethiopia is exploring. Meles’ words describing Assab as watering hole for camels still holds true today. Even if the regime gets a much deserved demise tomorrow, Eritrea’s ills will continue unless we start thinking and acting more constructively. We need to switch to an inter-dependent mind set to end the isolation.  Unfortunately, we will have to face this from a position of weakness for some time.

Education

Education is one of the very few high probability equalizers for personal and national growth. Nations with enlightened leaderships facilitate citizenship applications for highly educated foreigners. Our citizenship in western societies, gives us the opportunity to see this blessing first hand in our daily lives. Even Ethiopia is trying its hand by allowing Eritrean refugees in Ethiopia to attend its universities. What are the chances of those graduating from these universities returning to Eritrea’s life of slavery?

Unfortunately, the regime has marginalized education robbing the nation of two decades worth of quality education. Mentioning the closure of the only accredited university, the so-called chancellor never attending a university graduation ceremony, a semi-literate military man appointed to run the so called “colleges” (military boot camps in reality) is probably sufficient to show how deep we have sunk in this critical space.

Maybe we wouldn’t have made the ranks of other small countries like Finland and Singapore who come at the top of education achievement ratings year over year. But we could have made some progress towards that worthy goal if it weren’t for the wasted decades under a regime that despises education and the educated so much.

There is no denying things are bad. But it is possible to turn things around for the better by refocusing energies to re-build the frayed trust; through renewed commitment to respectful dialog that gets the tone right making everyone feel included; by moving away from the regime’s bombastic and isolationist culture towards an inter-dependent future within Eritrea and outside; and by re-starting the journey towards quality education. Rwanda and Ethiopia are improving the trajectory of their future. We can too. But for that to happen, we must first reject the regime’s toxic culture of exclusion and extreme arrogance wholesale.

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38 COMMENTS
  • ahmed saleh August 26, 2013

    Those writers who preach for Mahber Andenet are part of the group of betrayers with hidden motive . For God sake
    every one’s Eritrean family tree lost members of it’s young to bring independence . Personally . I have an issue
    with those of little understanding from our facts oflife but keep complaining in the hopes of getting a free reward
    in their life . Eritreans must be alerted from their dirty laundry of political conspiracy hidden tactics . Hgdf can
    be a cover-up excuse to reach their goal . My advice is to stay alerted and vigilant not to repeat past mistake of
    unconditional trust , we can not afford to stay fooled repeatedly .

    • kabbire August 26, 2013

      Habal belya: keytqdmeki : kind of response,

      What about “mahber Arabist”? Those who say “we are Arabs” at any cost? After all Eritreans have never been Arabs but there are many Eritreans who still have deep relations with many Ethiopians, be it Saho, Afar, Tigrinya, Kunama, Bilen and Tigre.

      An Arab wanabe hypocrite wants the Eritrean to stop looking for his relatives across the narrow Mereb river, as the Arabist lies hard to build a solid bridge across the wider Red Sea to meet his Arab master and by burning Eritrean languages, values and centuries year old history. And still the Arabist wants to insult deqebat Eritreans. These are some of the lies the bankrupt Jebha wants to inculcate in the young opposition with its alien Jebha Arabist vision.

      • ahmed saleh August 27, 2013

        Zombie is always Zombie . Jebha , Shaebia , Arabist , Jehadist and so on , an old tactics of anti-Eritrean
        corrupted forces . No need to waste your energy on beating a dead horse . It is 21st century look around the
        reality in the ground . Suspicion and hatred based fanaticism will lead you to unhealthy consequences .
        Thanks God , we count on principled true believer nationalist contributors who are still among us .
        I do not have a problem with Ethiopia but only with those betrayers who want to act more Ethiopian to offend their
        own people with no shame just to satisfy their political prostitution by disguising themselves in our forum .

        • i and i August 27, 2013

          ahmed
          the question is why you want to be arab
          why you ashamed to be tigre, saho or bilen
          there are a lot of muslim country like iran, tureky, somalia who are proud of themself

          • ahmed saleh August 27, 2013

            Come with you real name as a man if you want my response . Do you scare from HGDF to stay hiding not to reveal your identity . I hate to deal with fake people who un belt their manhood pant . Too much political KOSHEMSHEM on the screen .
            Look at you , do you think smart enough to play around like NEFAHITO changing your appearance all the past
            couple of years in this forum , RETARDED -TAEBAN WAHED .

        • GM August 29, 2013

          Ahmed Saleh,

          Have a bit of didnity!

          No real Eritrean Habesha can promote an alien language Arab.

          If you continue insist to promote/simpatize whith a language and culture alien to your real roots i am obliged to consider you as prostitute at best a garbage.

          Go and find your immagined arablandia outside Eritrea, where for sure will know how to treat prostitutes alla SG, SY and your types.

    • belay nega August 26, 2013

      Ahmed Saleh

      “every one’s Eritrean family tree lost members of it’s young to bring independence ”

      The above statement would sound better,.if you had say it before you cheer NEW HOPE ERITREA’S poem, who clearly call ERITREAN MARTYRS bandits..

      • ahmed saleh August 27, 2013

        Well I used to call them too ” thugs , AWALU ” to these people who ruin the country . To make the record straight nobody can disrespect our Martyrs and our veteran fighters or in general the organizations. The bandits are the
        ones who hijacked the honor of Eritrean struggle . Others than them in fact became the lost history out of the picture . That is why our blood keep boiling now and then out of frustration .

  • Ogbai GhebreMedhin August 26, 2013

    AGENA’A!TEWOLDE. RARE ARE THE TIMES WHEN ONE READS THE TRUTH IN SIMPLE AND CLEAR WRITING: THE VERY THING WHICH THE ERITREAN DARK CLOUDS NEED TO BE PIERCED AND REMOVED WITH. TO REITERATE – THE BEAUTY OF YOUR ARTICLE LIES IN STATING THE TRUTH IN SIMLE

  • Ogbai GhebreMedhin August 26, 2013

    …ACCIDENTALLY LOST CONNECTION -HENCE THE UNFINISHED SENTENCE: – STATING THE TRUTH IN SIMPLE BUT CLEAR ENGLISH. YOU HAVE DONE GREAT SERVICE TO THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE AND TO THE ERITREAN PEOPLE IN REMOVING THE MASK THAT HAS BLOCKED US FROM SEEING OURSELVES TRUTHFULLY.
    WE TRY TO JUSTIFY THE UNJUSTIFIABLE, TO DEFEND THE INDEFENSIBLE, WE LIVE HIDING BEHIND EXCUSES AND HYPOCRISY – THE ROAD OF OUR DEMISE. OF COURSE, IN SPITE OF THE DARK CLOUDS HANGING OVER ERITREA, MOST OF WHICH OUR MAKING, THERE IS HOPE THAT WE CAN ONCE AGAIN SEE THE LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL, AND ONCE FOR ALL.
    HAVING SAID THAT, IF I CAN SHARE SOMETHING OF IMPORTANCE WITH YOU AND YOUR DEAR READERS. WHENEVER I PICK UP MY PEN OR SIT IN FRONT OF THE COMPUTER TO EXPRESS MY SIMPLE BUT DISTURBING THOUGHTS ABOUT MY MOTHERLAND, ERITREA, I THINK OF MY AUDIENCE AND THE BEST MEANS TO REACH THEM. AS WE KNOW, ALTHOUGH WE HAVE TWO OFFICIAL LANGUAGES: TIGRIGNA AND ARABIC, IN THEIR DAILY LIVES, THE ERITREAN PEOPLE USE MOSTLY TIGRIGNA, TIGRE, SAHO, KUNAMA, BILEN…EXT. HENCE, I EXPRESS MY THOUGHTS IN TIGRINA, THE BEST I CAN DO.
    THEREFORE, MR. TEWOLDE, YOUR BEAUTIFUL ARTICLE WILL LOST TO MOST ERITREANS AT HOME DUE TO ITS BEING WRITTEN IN ENGLISH. IT IS EASY SAID THAN DONE, BUT YOUR ARTICLE NEEDS TO BE TRANSLATED TO REACH THE HEARTS AND MINDS OF THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST: THE ERITREAN PEOPLE.
    RESPECTFULLY

  • Elosateshim August 26, 2013

    dear

    but do you think the PFDJ crew are doing all the grudges because they lack the know how on how to administer national development programs for the 3 million people, with the resources deposited in the country? at times it is smart to be suspicious toward the WILL and INNOCENCE they carry. lacking SKILL and lacking WILL is quite different. tying Eritrea under the yoke of excuses and letting Ethiopia prosper …………? it is like to tie some one very strong and command him to be whipped by some one weak…..we need to prove the hypothesis of SKILL and WILL …..

  • Petros Haile August 26, 2013

    Selam Tewolde,
    Well thought and good advice, Indeed, it is the toxic culture that leads Eritreans to extremism and isolation. If the current trend continues … Every steps and measures taken by the government, and so called opposition will have a long term negative impact in Eritrea … On top of what Ogbai suggested I would say, Eritrean intellectuals and scholars should be rescuing the country, at least from the “inevitable” cultural catastrophe, … How do you do that ? As the western nations often emphasis on civic education, our intellectuals and scholars ought to teach and advocate for the revival/introductions and practices of trust, communication and other useful societal lessons, instead, our scholars and intellectuals are preoccupying themselves in politics and organizational affairs that often compromise their academic integrity … I sincerely believe all this organizational and societal ills were caused by our ignorance on the basics of civic education … Even those who at one time or another tried to organize as civic groups, failed to remain “Civic”, or in some cases, the elitist arrogance replaced their good intensions … In short, we need to learn a lesson from past mistakes, and focus on the civic education that directly or indirectly improve out trust and communication with each other … I would strongly suggest Tewolde and Ogbai who wrote articles on MAEDE ZETE (emphasis on dialogue /communication) should take the bulk of the responsibility in organizing some sort of seminar, strictly on civic education … and produce a publication that can be used as a guidance by every political or resistance movements to resolve conflicts, or to improve their trust & communications … This small steps may take us somewhere … Hopefully !!!

  • erikid August 26, 2013

    Only Ethiopians are against independence. If you talk to real Eritreans, they all value independence. Agames want to come back to Eritrea. That will never happen. That is why this agame website keeps lying in the hope of getting Eritrea. Kedem halifuka hadanai. Give up!

    • tekeste August 26, 2013

      Eritreans are frustrated by this brutal regime and i am not surprised if some people prefer andnet. Do you think Eritreans got freedom from Ethiopia? The reality is that Ethiopia is better of without Eritrea. It looks that Etiopians are freed from Eritrea. It is very sad story.

      • ahmed saleh August 27, 2013

        Well , Eritrea under Ethiopian occupation or diplomatically speaking Ethiopian administration benefited
        some people in some extent . But do not forget it happened on expense of majority people sufferings . I
        understand many of our young generations lost in between because of HGDF propaganda manipulation to
        brain wash the mind . The events of atrocity and barbaric acts in 1960’s and 1970s left a scar in our
        society . Therefore like some elders said after independence concerning Ethiopia ;
        ” We are God fearing people easily to forgive but we will not forget ” .
        My question , is the elder man sound fair enough to compromise ? I leave that up to you to analyze .

    • Elsa August 26, 2013

      Erikid,
      Dear son, it is time to grow up. Can you discuss with civility please? The article written by Tewelde addresses Eritrean issue and has nothing to do with Ethiopia. Why do jump and talk about Ethiopia. Please stay within the topic.

      Amoka Elsu

      • Elosateshim August 26, 2013

        Erikid

        ”KEYBEKOLE ZIHARERE: KEYLEBEME ZI’AREGE”

    • Nahom August 26, 2013

      IsyasKid

      Because of you and your likes, Eritrea has become a fertile land of dictatorship.

  • H.K August 26, 2013

    Dear Tewolde,

    Thanks for your well written and matured article.
    Defeatism and despiration is not an option and never will!!
    All the cash that the government have is spent like a maniac to devide any movement that starts to take shape. It will keep on doing that unless we devise a way out to outsmart that.

    Let us work to find a way to get rid of the ” God father and his cronies”
    God save Eritrea and its lovely people!!
    H.K.

  • Concerned Eritrawi August 26, 2013

    Thanks Tewolde,
    Your articles are always great to read and very objective and to the point. Please keep writing and do not be deterred by some of the subhuman PFDJ followers or some immature people. This is very high time for Eritrean survival and it will be historical tragedy to be submissive.

  • Said August 26, 2013

    Asmara.com his not an Eritran, unfortunately he’s a business man, even met isaisa, in same point in time , going to you the solution, you talking, abut you cande get me it sounds to dangerous I maybe can be wrong, now it’s a great research, now were is home , as a researcher, you taking me to the east and then to the west and then to the south and then to the north, why don’t you make this simple, instead creating more headache, take me home man. united against dictator.

  • tes August 26, 2013

    Tewolde,

    Great article thanks for that. You put it in a simple way and to the point. Eritreans need to change our mindset and try to look far to the future. Many of us live in the past and lost our confidence- No trust on each other let alon to out siders. We live in fear acueseing others for our failer. Thank you again you said it all and let those who can listen, read and talk something from it. Keep up the good work.

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