Unfiltered Notes: There must be a better way to disagree
December 8, 2015 By Tewelde Stephanos (email: testifanos@gmail.com) Along with few friends, I make very modest monthly contributions to encourage the work demo.archive.assenna.com is doing. I do this with the spirit of “if I cannot
December 8, 2015 By Tewelde Stephanos (email: testifanos@gmail.com)
Along with few friends, I make very modest monthly contributions to encourage the work demo.archive.assenna.com is doing. I do this with the spirit of “if I cannot lead, at least I should support those who do”. And there is no doubt demo.archive.assenna.com has been relentless in the fight against the regime that is oppressing the Eritrean people.
Overall, assenna is doing a necessary job and deserves the support of all justice seekers. And that is why I will continue my modest support. But I do have my disagreements with some of its approaches and I feltthis recent article1, does not advance the cause of justice that demo.archive.assenna.com itself has been a central part of. For me,
1) 1) Succumbing to mockery and inflammatory language dis-empowers us all. We have been doing this for over half a century now and it hasn’t worked in our collective favor at all. As a result, Eritrea has lost its best people fighting against itself than against any other enemy. Isn’t it time to overcome this destructive culture?
2) 2) Ruling each other out only provides comfort to the regime we all claim to be fighting against. Why would we need over 30 political parties otherwise? Some are even rumored to have single digit membership.
3) 3) The tone with which we express our disagreements is crucial. The wrong tone, encourages more divisions and discourages those sitting on the fence from joining the struggle for justice.
“But what Amanuel said is the truth”, some may argue. As I heard someone wise say once though “if the truth is used as a sword”, what good is it? If we use “OUR truth” as a sword – and not as an instrument of enlightenment as it ought to be – all we will have left is a mess of bodies with severed limbs; unable to push off a feudal regime that should have been dead a long time ago.
Like many, I have my disappointments with those who cannot tame their unproductive egos. But I would much rather take my revenge with my vote later. For now, we need everyone to do their part – no matter how small – in ridding Eritrea of its worst enemy.
Some argue – plausibly – if we don’t weed out the bad apples now, what guarantees do we have they won’t come to power and mess things up again? If we continue to rule each other out with such speed as we have done so far, nothing. But hoping we have learned enough from half a century of petty infighting, there is a better way we can choose to adopt.
1) 1) Let’s cooperate now, even with those we don’t agree with, and make sure we vote later. This does not mean we don’t criticize each other now. But let’s do so without personalizing things or by resorting to inflammatory and condescending language as this piece did. Better to challenge ideas with better ideas.
2) 2) We have been shouting to point out the wrongs others are committing for over five decades. Unfortunately, that has not gotten us anywhere. We need to show why our way is better by example. If that is done consistently, people will hopefully remember it and cast their vote for you or buy your newspapers later.
3) 3) The objective should be to create a future Eritrea with leveled playing field where no one is above the law. If we truly stick to that, then it will be a battleground of ideas. That would be a huge success because people with better ideas will be more likely to win. If the ones with bad ideas win, it would have meant that we didn’t stand up against injustice together again. And history will have repeated itself, as it has for over half a century already. And the shame will be on all of us. Again.
Human life is the cheapest commodity in Eritrea today. Does such a country have a right to exist? Not until those who claim to be justice seekers start creating broad alliances that can speak with unified voice that can transform Eritrea into a place where human life is the most precious commodity instead.
At times, our ignorance (or is it callousness) knows no limits. I had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Daniel Rezene recently. By far, I found him to very passionate about the cause of justice – intelligent, humble, articulate and uplifting. Yet, instead of embracing his inclusive message, it is sad to see some have succumbed to ugly ethnic divisiveness. For me, I can’t think of Eritrea without also thinking about Woldeab Woldemariam. Do we really not know our heritage?
The point I am trying to make here is similar to this blog from a year and half ago2 where Medrek and assena where at odds then as now. A year and half later, I was hoping we will have been wiser.
I hope, in its promised second piece, assenna’s tone will be better than the first.
2 http://unfilterednotes.blogspot.com/2014_04_01_archive.html
Hagherawi December 10, 2015
It’s very important for ordinary Eritreans to consider these few points in mind when dealing with any Eritrean political group:
– No group will be able to bring about the fundamental changes we need, alone. All groups should work together to save the country.
– Is there an organized opposition inside the country ?, those who claim that, have to answer many questions. We need to be very sure they are not selling us a “Reformed Higdef”.
– Don’t encourage any group who claim can do it alone. By now it should be clear that it’s not possible.
– Unity is in the interest of all ordinary Eritreans. We should stop anyone who work against it.
– Diversity per se has never been a problem in our country, but if it’s not managed properly, it can be a serious problem. Let’s make sure we create a culture that accommodates all.
– Unfortunately, it’s very difficult to get rid of a regime known for its brutality. But we should also keep a good eye on any one who uses violent means to change it.
– Don’t be indifferent, because you may be in a safe place today, but in one way or the other, you too may pay a price. No man is an island.
Mahta December 10, 2015
Dear Tewelde,
Thankx! I agree there must be a better way to disagree! I wonder sometimes whether we really are justice seekers or problem seekers?
I think we need more people like you to bring more people to the struggle!
Simon G. December 10, 2015
Mahta Nebsi,
How about both? Justice seekers and problem seekers. Identify problem and solve them—>that way, we are problem seekers.
Arguing with the boundary of respect is healthy. Just remember that.
Mahta December 11, 2015
Simon arkey, “Andetselmat” enda beleka embear respect alo eyu?? wey gud!
AHMED SALEH !!! December 14, 2015
Simon
I guess justice seekers and problem seekers do not get along together
but problem solvers might perform well .
Selam December 11, 2015
Very judicious article thank you
Josy December 16, 2015
Teweldino, It is in deed very difficult to find any better way to disagree specially when judgements are biased by mistrust and suspicion. But what most of us usually lack is a better choice of words in our disagreements. This has always been haunting our unity by leading vital issues astray. Despite the hard work and effort he is exerting, these are also important points Amanuel Iyasu has to consider as a moderator of this Website.
We see that the current movement of Medrek is raising more questions than answers though it’s good so.
I personally don’t support their new initiative mainly because it’s focusing on the same vicious circle of the failing political parties and not on Eritreans as a whole. It’s the concept that matters and not at all the place of meeting and from what I see, it is the same old failing style being presented in a different way.
As from this point onwards, it’s a waste of time to go any distance to find out who these people are, where they meet, what their past or present reputations are. Time will clear these doubts anyway.
With a bit more of genuine support and amendments, we would have been better off with the Vaccaro style of bringing unity among us. That was at least a meeting that took place everywhere in the world and an open shop in which every Eritrean could participate.